What’s up with this idea of losing yourself in a relationship somehow being romantic?
We hear it in song lyrics, see it on television shows, and even read about it in magazines and on dating websites. For some reason, the idea is romanticized, but this really bothers me.
I mean, I understand how it happens… You get so comfortable with another person, feel so safe with them, it can be consuming. I get it.
Sometimes, even, we can become so concerned with the other person that we forget about ourselves. And as a result, we stop voicing our opinions, become excessively agreeable, and ultimately, as a person, we disappear.
But that’s not romantic. That’s lazy.
We have to keep in mind that our partner initially chose us because of who we are, what we bring to the table, and how we add to the relationship/his or her life.
The bottom line is that a relationship takes two people and if we don’t show up, we’re undermining the very purpose of it.
Yes, very much true. You have explained the concept descriptively along with a reasonable viewpoint. Also, the concept of bottom line is quite good. Keep up the good work. 🙂
Thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words and feedback!
You’re most welcome. 🙂
Brilliant
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Thank you!